Following your instincts and intuition is vital in life, but during your divorce proceedings, you might want to keep your "instincts" in check. This means that if your spouse upsets you and your instincts say it's time to raise your voice, consider taking ten deep breaths and seeing how you feel afterward.
You can tell that a divorce is inevitable because of the way you and your spouse feel about one another. Maybe there's been infidelity. Perhaps you've grown apart over time. Whatever the reason, it's natural to want to start planning for your future without your spouse. Don't get ahead of yourself by making major financial mistakes as you head for divorce court.