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Focus on the future: 4 tips for avoiding common divorce mistakes

On behalf of Grotta & Associates, P.C. | Oct 10, 2019 | Firm News |

Even when couples separate on relatively good terms, the process of divorce can be emotionally draining at best. When partners have irreconcilable differences, that stress may feel unbearable, leading to rash words or actions that may make the situation worse. 

Divorcing couples are often so focused on moving on, that they may try to rush through the process without really thinking through the financial consequences for themselves and their children. In other cases, bitter feelings may lead to impulsive actions that may affect the court’s decisions later. Here are four quick tips for navigating divorce and staying focused on a successful future. 

1. Do not let anger make your decisions for you

Decisions made during a divorce can have huge significance for life after divorce. Stay mindful of your emotional state and be careful not to do anything that might be regrettable or compromising down the road. Something as simple as a heated social media post may come back to haunt you during court proceedings.  

2. Do be honest about your financial assets 

Attempting to shelter assets from court scrutiny is another all–too–common mistake that individuals make during divorce. Providing a full and honest account of all property, income and financial assets—including cyber wealth—is essential for ensuring a smooth process in court and avoiding potential penalties. 

3. Do not try to rush your divorce

Whether there are high-value assets at stake or minor children to consider, rushing a divorce settlement may lead to poor outcomes with a lasting impact on your family and finances for years to come. Avoid the temptation to hurry through big decisions, and make sure to take the time to plan for the future carefully. 

4. Do seek professional counsel

While a do-it-yourself approach may seem like a smart way to save money, divorce law has many intricacies that may present pitfalls that end up costing much more in the long run. Whether you are parting with your spouse on friendly terms or not, an experienced divorce attorney should be able to explain all your options and may be able to help you to avoid critical missteps. 

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